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No Joking Matter

Dear Rev. Hester,

    Our pastor is a good preacher, but he is forever telling "off colored" jokes about ethnic groups from the pulpit. He thinks it is funny, but he doesn't realize how it is offending and embarrassing many of our church members. What should we do?

-Country Side Baptist



Dear Country Side,

    Go to your pastor in a spirit of love and encouragement. Affirm his preaching and tell him that you want to support him and his preaching and ministry. Share with him that you aren't trying to tell him "how to preach, or what to preach." Honestly share with him how some of the church members are feeling that his telling jokes about ethic groups from the pulpit is offending many church members and that these types of jokes don't seem appropriate for a Christian minister to be telling from the pulpit.

Blessings,
Rev. Dennis Hester




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